Wednesday, 16 May 2012

Topics to Talk About with Your Boyfriend

Topics to Talk About with Your Boyfriend

There are many interesting topics that boys love to speak about and they are not all that hard to find. But, a conversation for a specific purpose, is what makes more sense. Let me help you out in this, through this article.

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Topics to talk about with your boyfriend


Discussions with your boyfriend can get mundane if you don't stay informed. This is because, as a rule, men and women think differently. No matter how understanding you are, that difference will crop up, without fail. So, in order to maintain healthy communication, the best thing is to know what to talk about. Don't keep ranting about things that interest you, but don't talk only about his stuff either. Keep a clear balance, and you should be set.

So, the basic difference in men and women is, men love sports, women love mind games. Men love gadgets, women love accessories. A man could spend the entire day watching fashion week for the models, the woman would watch it for the apparel. These differences exist and can't be helped. A few exceptions may exist, but the difference still stands. So, how can you find topics that would interest your boyfriend when your differences are so stark. Well, ladies, it's simple. Just a little bit of research and a lot of affection can help you out. I am sure the affection can be handled by you, so I'll help you out with the research.


Interesting Topics that Boys Would Love to Speak About


 Read Newspaper together 

A really great way to start the day is to read the newspaper together. He gets to comment on what he finds interesting and you get to comment on what you like. This way, both of you get a chance to communicate as per your choice.
    

 Talk About His day

Talking about his day is another good subject to talk about with your boyfriend. If he gives a one word answer, probe it by asking, "why?" or "in what way?"
   

 Latest Movie

 If your boyfriend enjoys movies, talk to him about the latest movie that has been released, or the one that is due to come out. Find out his views and reviews.
   

 Topic of His interest

 Talk to him about something you recently read that would be of interest to him. If it is not of interest to him, mention it, but don't keep on about it.
   

 Latest Sport News

 Ask him about the latest news in his favorite sport. You could also, then, respond by telling him about your favorite sport. This will surely ignite his interest in the conversation.
    

 Recall Funny Incident

When you don't know how to start a conversation, remember one thing. Guys love to discuss funny things. Narrate a funny incident that may have happened to you in the day. You can also ask him for his opinion on it, if you want.
    

 Praise Him

Going against popular belief, guys love being spoken about. So, just tell your man how handsome he is and how happy being with him makes you. The best part of this one is that he will reciprocate with compliments for you.
    

 Man Love Gossip

Men love to "network" (read: gossip), no kidding! Let your man in on the latest gossip about your neighborhood. I am sure he will have something to say about it as well. More so, he will, most probably, let you in on some exciting gossip as well.
    

 Latest Book or Album

You can talk about the latest book that you read or the latest album that you heard. Men mostly have an opinion about everything, I am sure that he will have something to say about the artist or writer. This makes a great conversation topic.
    

 Your Boyfriend

One of the best and funny topics to talk about with your boyfriend are, the latest antics of Garfield or Calvin. You can choose the comic of his choice. Men are fairly passionate about their reads, I am sure he will have something to retaliate to.

Silence

Silence is often louder that a thousand words. So don't always try to keep having conversations. Try to enjoy each other's silence and make words out of the sound of heartbeats. When all that fails, and you still don't know what to talk about, you can resort to talking over subjects mentioned above. This is where I sign off! Take care!
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Random Questions to Ask a Girl

Random Questions to Ask a Girl

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Random questions to ask a girl


Talking with a girl is easy, as you have to just start a topic, after which, she will continue with that topic till the end of the conversation! You just have to sit and nod your head at all the right moments or, you are doomed. Here are some random questions to ask a girl, that can serve as conversation starters, and will help the guys to do the talking or may be we should say, initiate the process of talking.

It is said that conversation is an art, specially if you are talking to a girl. Girls usually try to guess your history and geography, through the way you talk! Nosy people, most of the time, work like repellents! But it is very necessary to know a few details about a person, if you want to continue a relationship with him/her. You can do so, by being a little smart and diplomatic. You will have to ask questions in such a manner, that the girl doesn't get even a slightest hint of your nosiness! Girls are also said to appreciate flattery, but too much of it can also spoil everything! So the safest way, is to think of some random questions, to ask a girl you like. Remember random, not stupid! If you ask her something like 'Which color you like, blue, black or brown?' or 'Ever been in the back of a police car, huh?', trust me, she will never meet you again! So, here are some good, random questions to ask a girl.


Questions to Ask a Girl


    

When is your birthday?
    

What kind of music do you like?
    

What is your favorite movie?
    

Which is the best vacation you have ever been on?
    

What is the meaning of your name?
    

Which place would you definitely like to visit?
    

What is the greatest thing you have ever done, so far?
    

Which was the scariest moment of your life?
    

Do you believe that a soulmate exists for every person?
    

Do you believe in God?
    

Which sport are you interested in?
    

What is your favorite hobby?
    

If you could be granted 3 wishes, what would they be, and why?
    

If you could only do one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
    

What will you say to a man, who is trying to commit suicide?
    

Which is the best book you have ever read?
    

What are the three things that you cannot live without?
    

Has any movie, or book made a huge impact on you?

Personal Questions to Ask a Girl



     
Why do you think you are so beautiful?
    
Who do you think should make the first move, a guy or a girl?
    
What do your friends think of me?
    
Do you like my friends?
    
I like pets, would you like to have pets someday?
    
Do you believe in 'love at first sight'?
    
What is your idea of a romantic evening?
    
What would your dream house be like? Would it be a contemporary apartment, or an English country house?
    
Which are your 3 physical features, you often get complimented on?
   
Which was the funniest proposal you got?
    
What are you excessively obsessive-compulsive about?
    
If you wrote a journal entry about our conversation, 
 
what would it say?
    
What do you prefer, eating salsa or dancing it?
    
Which is one rule, you're proud of breaking?
    
What do you expect from life? Where do you see yourself ten years from now?
   
 In your opinion, which are the most important traits in a man?
   
 What can totally impress you?
   
 If your life was a book, what would you name it and how would your story end? And, what would be the climax?
These were some random questions to ask a girl. Having a stock of questions, does not mean that you are going to go on asking them! Remember, it is a conversation and not an interview! These questions will help you know the girl, and will also help you kick-start the conversation. However, it will be your responsibility to take the conversation to the next level. 
 

Ways to Say Sorry to Your Boyfriend

Ways to Say Sorry to Your Boyfriend

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Ways to say sorry to your Boyfriend

A simple 'sorry' can help to improve even the worst of situations. Here are many ways of saying sorry to your boyfriend.
Love means never having to say you are sorry! However, there are times when the appropriate word may make all the difference. Words can either shape things in the right manner for you or break things for you. Any kind of a relationship has its highs and lows. For a blossoming relationship, you would need more than just love...a little bit of patience and understanding would help you in the long run!

So, did you have your first big fight and come storming back home with tears in your eyes? Did it feel it was the end and your boyfriend was at fault...at least till yesterday? Are you regretting the feeling of having caused a scene and blamed your boyfriend for many unnecessary things?

Patching up and having to say you're sorry is not really as difficult as it sounds. If you are truly in love and regret your act, there are many ways to say sorry to your boyfriend. An apology is an indication that you are shameful about your act and if he truly loves you, he is bound to let go all the issues and embrace you with immense happiness! Do you want to get back to your love? Well, here are some various ways to apologize and win the heart back of your lover!

Different Ways of Apologizing to your Boyfriend

Bear Hug

A bear hug should be on the agenda for sure. A hug goes to show you care and offers genuine warmth and comfort in any relationship. Always communicate with your boyfriend clearly so that he is aware of what you feel. A warm bear hug would only help to soften any feelings of anger towards you.

A Gift

A gift would be a better way of going about this issue if you want to make him realize that you completely regret behaving like a jerk. It will also go to show you care! Romantic gifts or even personalized gifts would surely help to ease a tense situation. Put on your thinking cap to come up with some cool gift ideas!

A Beautiful Card

Look for a beautiful card or make one yourself with meaningful wordings and meet him personally. Apologize directly followed with a warm hug and present the card to him. Even if he still shows signs of aggression, be patient and loving. Once he knows what you genuinely feel, you are bound to melt his heart!

A Good Time

Select a good time to apologize. Do not pick a time when he is busy with work or is loaded with personal problems. Make sure you select a time when he is alone and less worried about other issues in life. Then, all you need to do is sincerely apologize.

Space

Give him ample space. Let him yell at you but avoid going on the defensive. Any kind of argument would only worsen the situation. As he yells or shouts, try to agree with whatever he is saying and slip an apology in between. The moment he realizes you are sorry, his anger will surely melt away. Besides, you might even get a surprise when he apologizes to you for certain things he may have said!

Even if you feel these ways of saying sorry to your boyfriend have had no effect, then all you need is a little patience from your side. You cannot be pushy about these relationship issues.

Time is the best factor in this case and you need to only keep conveying the message that you care. With time, he would surely come back to you the moment he realizes how genuinely you feel about the same issue. With love and respect from your side, you are bound to make him realize the importance of the wonderful relationship you share.

Smiley Face Symbols

Smiley Face Symbols

If you want to learn the new language of smiley face symbols or emoticons, you have landed on the right page. Here I provide an emoticon dictionary of sorts with smiley face symbols and meanings.

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smiley face symbols

 

The Internet and cell phone texting technology has bred a new symbolic language. It is called the 'Emoticon' language, whereby emotions are conveyed through symbols created entirely through alphabets and other keyboard symbols. Smiley face symbols are real fun to use in text messages and online chat. They convey what you want to say with brevity and save you from the tedium of using too many words. This Buzzle article is a compilation of smiley faces for texting, chatting and social networking site status messages or posts.

Emoticons were popularized by instant messaging clients like Yahoo Messenger. It is a feature of a more 'human' Internet where real people communicate and express themselves. It remedies the rather impersonal nature of a text chat, where there is no way of knowing what the person at the other end is feeling. Neither online chatting, nor text messaging can be a substitute for real face-to-face conversation. However, it is convenient and enables you to stay connected anywhere, anytime. The smiley face symbols for Facebook and other social networking sites are not much different from text message symbols, but a bit more creative. Go through the smiley face symbols and meanings chart below and acquaint yourself with emoticon lingo.

Smiley Face Symbols List


Making smiley face symbols on keyboard is quite simple, as it uses all your regular punctuation symbols, along with alphabets. Most instant messengers, chat sites have their own emoticon code. Once you type in a text based emoticon, it gets replaced by a graphical image that is substituted in its place. Some just let you select emoticons out of a list of animated images. Here are some of the most popular smiley face symbols for MySpace, Facebook and general text messaging.

Smiley Face Symbols     Meaning

:)     Smiling, Happy Face, Cheshire Cat Smile (Indicates that you are not to be taken seriously. This is the most commonly used emoticon ever.)

:-)     Smiley Face With a Nose (A more gentlemanly smile)

;)     Friendly, Flirtatious Wink (Used when flirting, joking or hinting something)

:-P     Tongue Out (Mockery, Playful Banter, Mocking Disapproval)

:>     Evil, Devilish Grin or Happy Smile

;-)     Wink with Smile (Ironic, Sardonic Humor or Happiness)

B-)     Cool Smile, Smile With Attitude, Smiling With Sunglasses On

8-)     Wide Eyed Smile, Surprised Smile

:D     Laughter, Big Smile, Grin

:-D     Big Laugh

:-o     Shocked, Surprised, Shouting (The 'Oh No!' expression)

:-#     Secrecy ('My Lips are Sealed'), Blowing a Flying Kiss

:-J     Tongue in Cheek Smile ('I know your secret' smile)

:-(     Unhappy, Sad

O:-)     Angelic Smile

:-)))     Big Smile

:-C     Incredibly Jaw Dropping

:-|     Disgust, Plain Neutral Face

:'-(     Crying, Sentimental

|-)     Asleep, Sleepy

:-||     Angry

:-*     A Kiss

>:)     Devil's Smile

:-x     Kiss

:-1     Smirk

>8-D     Evil Crazy Laughter

:-\     Skepticism

<:-)     Dumb Question, Dunce

:-)8     Sports a bow tie

[:-)     Wearing a Walkman

:*)     Drunk

[:]     Robot

:-{)     Mustache smile

:-[     Vampire

|-O     Yawns

:-Q     Smoking

:-9     Licks lips

:-&     Tongue-tied

:-)-o     Doctor, Medical Professional

*<:-)     Santa Claus

X-(     Death/Suicide


These were some of the most basic emoticon meanings. There are many more which you could make, using your own imagination. It is a symbolic kind of language that is still in a nascent stage. You will get used to all these smiley face symbols once you get hooked to chatting online with friends. Learning the jargon is not a very difficult task. It is a part of the global language of communication that Internet has bred. I am sure that you found these smiley face symbols to be interesting. Use any of these emoticons to spice up your text chat or online conversation! If you only unleash your imagination, you can come up with brilliant emoticons of your own, which will eventually be assimilated into the constantly evolving emoticon vocabulary.


Dukhi Shayari

Dukhi Shayari-Best of Shayari for sad persons only who have lost in love.

pyaar me dhokha khaya ho yaa use miss kar rahe ho to send this shayari to your beloved one to show your value.


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dukhi yaadein shayari poetry


Dukh ny Sukh ka Saans lia hai,
Kaash koi phir Yaad na Aaye…





Phir Na Karna Meri Gustakh Nigahaon Ka Gila,
Daikhye Aap Ne Phir Pyar Se Daikha Hai Mujhe..






Seekh liya hum nay bhi tark-e-Taluq kerna,
Mohabbat dety dety hum ny apni Qadar kho di!!!





Waqt sub kuch hi chheen laita hai,
Ye to phhir aik muskrahat thi…






Namaaz parhoon to dua mai haath uthati hoon,
Akailay mai hoon to faryaad kar leti hoon,

Hijar ki raaton mai, sisak sisak kay roh leti hoon,
Tanhayi kay dinon mai uss ki aik jhalak dekhnay ko taras jaati hoon,

Chalte chalte raahon mai uss ka rasta takti hoon,
Aik din insha’Allah humara hoga millan,
Iss umeed kay saharay dil behla leti hoon..






Dukh Bol Raha Tha Bilkul Us Ke Lehjay Mein,
Phir Mein Ne Kaha Mat Bol Piya Ke Lehjay Mein..





Mujh ko Thakne Nhi deta hai Zaroorat ka Pahaarr,
Mere Bache mujhe Boorrha Nahi Hone detay !!






Mere naseeb ka khel niraala ho gaya,
Ghar mera jalaa aur kahin aur ujala ho gaya…






Nikle jo janaza mera do phool gira dena,
Milne ki tamana ho toh kafan hata dene..



Wo Toot Chuka Tha Mohabbat Main,
Mgar Us Ko Mohabbat Se Koi Shikayat Nai Thi..






Mujhe Neend Ki Ijaazat Bhi Unki Yaadon Se Leni Parti Hai,
Jo Khud Aaram Se Soye Hain Mujhe Karwaton Mein Chhor Kar..!!!





Rah-e-muhabbat main ajab sa howa hai haal apna,
Na zakhm nazar ata hai na dard saha jata hai…






Bichadh K Tujh Se Ajab Wehshaton Ne Ghera Hai,
Udaas Rehtaa Hai Yeh Dil Bhi Janglon Ki Tarah…!






Talash kesy karen khusboon ke maskan ko
hawa bhi chup hy badan hy nidhaal apna bhi





Tareeki ke hath pay bait karny walon ka
suraj ki bas ek kiran sy ghut jata hy dam





Tujhe sy bhi mangny ko jee nay chaha apna
or tery pas sabhi kuch tha ata karny ko




in kay aajany sa jo munh par aajati hai ronaq
wo samjhtay hain kay beemar ki haal acha hai





tujh ko khabar naheen mgr ek sada loh ko
barbaad kar dia tera do dn k pyaar nay





anees dm ka bharoosa naheen thahr jao
charaagh lay kar kahan samnay hawa chalay




ada hai shart, bnaawat bhi ltf daiti hai
wo hud bhi rooth gaya hain mujhe hafa kar k




fna kay baad bay kasoon ko koon poochay ga
mgr aay bay ksi roya karay gi to mujh ko barsoon





naqsh-e-faryaadi hai kis ki shoohi tahreer ka
kaaghazai hai pairhan har paiker e tasveer ka




na jana kah dunia sa jata hai koi
bohat dair ki muharbaan aatay aatay





Kon is dil ki daikh bhaal kere
Rooz ik cheez toot jati he




ungliya aaj bhi ise soch me gum hain
kyse usne naye hath ko thama hoga




Tu bhi oron ki trah muj se kinara kar lay
Sari dunia se bura hun tery kis kaam ka hun





Bahla na dil, na teergii-e-shaame-gham gayii
Ye jaanta to aag lagata na ghar ko maiN





ye mujhay chain kyoun nahi parta
Aik hi sakhas tha jahan main kia..





Mat ho khafa samajh le musafir koi gareeb
Aa nikla he kisi ka pata poochta howa




Yoon toh mere khuloos ki Qeemat bhi kam na thi
Kuch log zar parast the doulat pe mar gaye



Dil ki awaargi nahi jati,
Aqal ki rok thaaam jari hy..





Tergi chor gay dil mai ujalay ke khatoot

ye sitary mery ghar ke toot ke beqar giray







Esy bardhy ke manzily raste mai bich gy
Esy gy ke phir na kabhi lotna howa




Ek pal ko teri yad ay tu mai sochta ho
Khwab ke dehshat may bhatka howa ahoo-n ho ga




Mangi Koi Wazahat Na Poochi Koi Daleel,
Dil Ne To Hadd Hi Kar Di Us Pe Aetbaar Ki..




Dukh De Kar Sawaal Karte ho,
Tum Bhi Janam ! Kamaal Karte ho..

Dekh Kar Puchh Liya haal mera,
Chalo Kuchh to Khayaal Karte ho..

Shehar -e- Dil me Ye Udaasiyaan Kaisi,
Ye Bhi mujh se Sawaal Karte ho ???

Marnaa Chaahain to mar nahi Sakte,
tum Bhe Jeenaa muhaal Kartay ho..

Ab Kis Kis Ki misaal Doon tum Ko ?
Her Sitam Be-misaal Karte ho…..!!





Uski aankhon may koi dukh basa hai shayad,
ya mujy khud he veham sa howa hai shayad,

main ny pocha k bhol gaye ho tum bhi ?
pOnch kar aansu mjhy Usny kaha …”SHAYAD”




Hijar ki rat ajab rang hai pemane ka,
Dast e mekhwar me bujhata sa dia ho jaise.




Hum log hain saleet pe likhe hoe naseem,
Mitana pare ga agle sawalat k lie.




Wo is kamal se khela tha ishq ki bazi,
Me apni fatah samajhta tha maat hone tak.




Wo ae bazam me itna to meer ne daikha,
Phir us k bad charaghon me roshani na rahi,





Wo kar nahin raha tha meri baat ka yakeen,
Phir yon hoa k mar k dikhana para muje.





Najane kon sa aseeb dil me basta hai,
K jo bhi thehra wo akhir makan chor gea.



Najane kon si galion me chor aea hon,
Charagh jalte hoe khawab muskarate hoe.






Mila bhi to kahan us ka naam likhain ge,
Kitab e zeesat ka koi waraq bhi sada nahin.




Muj se kehta hai koi app preshan na hon,
Meri zulfon ko to adat hai preshani ki.





Meri bakarari rakhate hain wo,
Nikalta hai daam to nikalta rahe.




Mera haq hai gardash e jaam par mera haq hai kaif e daam par,
K charagh e mehfil e naaz me abhi jaal raha hai mera laho.




Muj ko bhi tehyar hai khad o khal pe apne,
Heran hai aina magar muj se ziada.





Lob o dehan bhi mila guftago ka fan bhi mila,
Magr jo dil pe guzari hai keh sakon bhi nahin.






Lote hain to wo gard masafat hai badan par,
Aina humen daikh k dhondula sa ho gea.






Log pochen ge fakeron ka thakana kia hai,
Tere qadmon ka pata de k guzar jaen ge.






Lakh rakhe gi chopa kar mosamon ki ankh se,
Dukh hawa ka zard paton par aayan ho jae ga.






Le gai hai sari khoshbo cheen kar thandi hawa,
Patian bikhari pari hain khak par mere lie.





Gulshan parast hon muje gull hi nahin aziz,
Kanton se bhi nibah kie ja raha hon me.





Kitni sadiyon se saleeb e azmaesh par hon me,
Kon hai jo lamha lamha azmata hai muje.




Kion doob sa jata hai sar e sham mera dil,
Soraj ko agr ghor se dhalte hoe daikhon.






Qareeb e rahguzar turbat ka hona bhi qiyamat hai,
Idher se jo guzarte hain tumhara naam lete hain.





Qarab hi kaam hai na dori hi ziada lakin,
Ajj wo rabat ka ehsas kahan hai k jo tha.




Faisal makalma tha hawaon ka phol se,
Wo shor tha k muj se suna kuch nahin gea.



Ghazal kahon kabhi sada se khat likhon us ko,
Udas dil k lie mashghale talash karon.






Ajeeb agg thi pheli hoi mere ghar me,
K jaal raha tha musalsal magar doan nahin tha.




Talab sohbae hasti k so abb aur kia ho gi,
Jinhain mohn se laga rakha hai wo khali piale hain.






Zaroratan bhi banate hain log kuch kirdar,
Kahaniyon ko meri jaan kahaniyan hi samaj.






Zabat lazam hai magar dukh hai qeyamat ka faraz,
Zalim abb k bhi na roe ga to maar jae ga.






Sirf halat hi nahin badle,
Hosalon me bhi kuch kami si ai hai.






Subhah e noo naghma be lab hai magr ae dobati raat,
Mere hise me teri marisa khawani ai.






Shaid muje kis mor pe lai hai muhabbat,
Dunia se bhi naraz hon khod se bhi khafa hon.






Sheher me is se pehle na daikhi kabhi,
Wo udasi jawab tere jane se hai.





Samne rakh k tere tuj se chopaea gea hon,
Main tujhe aik hi pehlo se dikhaea gea hon.





Sub chandani se khosh hain kisi ki khabar nahin,
Phaya hai mahtab ka gardon k ghao par.






Safar me sath mera aur koi kia daita,
Hawa bhi meri taraf samne se ai hai.






Zinda reh lon kisi sorat to bari bat hai ye,
Warna jaan se to guzarna koi dushwar nahin.





Zindagi jabar e musalsal ki tarah kati hai,
Jane kis juram ki pai hai saza yaad nahin.




Zara to kam hoen tanhaian parinde ki,
Abb aik khof bhi is ashian me rehta hai.




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